The Ancient Greek poet Euripedes told: "Tell me who your friend, and I will tell who you are". Centuries later people still estimate people around on their circle of contacts. Therefore parents often are afraid that their child will get to the bad company. The adult needs to create consciously a circle of contacts as an environment affects quality of life.
Instruction
1. To find the suitable company, it is necessary to understand what you want from life. It is worth communicating with those people of whom it is possible to follow an example.
2. At each person since the birth an environment is formed - it is family, neighbors, relatives, schoolmates. Having matured, he can choose with whom to continue communication and from whom its ways will disperse.
3. Psychologists recommend not to avoid the people different from you on age. It means that it is necessary to create a circle of contacts not only from peers, but also from children and old men too.
4. First, an uneven-age environment gives invaluable experience, increases skill to communicate, liberates. The person who is able to find a common language with people is much more senior or is younger than himself, will be more successful both in career, and in private life.
5. Secondly, communication with old men and children teaches responsibility and compassion. The people understanding the senior relatives set a positive example to the children therefore they have less chances to remain lonely in old age.
6. At last, communication with children makes the person more open, friendly and cheerful. The one who opened heart for children looks at life with optimism, so, suffers from depressions less often.
7. And how to find the suitable company among coevals? Here it is still simpler. Going to the UNIVERSITY, people often face adherents. Sometimes these communications are fixed for the rest of life if the former classmates become colleagues and friends of the family.
8. Besides, the circle of contacts is formed not only of pleasant people, but also of useful. For example, health workers, hairdressers, teachers, etc. Why not to make friends with the good doctor and to enter him into the environment if it can bring both benefit, and pleasant leisure.
9. Forming a circle of contacts, it is necessary not only to choose the pleasant people, but also to get rid of unpleasant persons. To it belong: whiners, critics, power vampires, etc.
10. It is unlikely it is possible to call pleasant communication with the person who constantly is dissatisfied with something. And about advantage and the speech cannot be. Whiners are similar to ticks – having seized the victim, they exhaust from it all juice, eating them, at the same time without being going to change anything in the destiny.
11. Power vampires who, besides complaints, are capable to bring down of you a lot of aggression, a negative and reproaches are very similar to whiners. Their hobby – to pit people with each other, receiving thus a discharge. If in your environment you noticed the power vampire, try to stop as soon as possible with it any contacts.
12. Critics too not the best company. Especially, if they achieved nothing in life, and are engaged only in the fact that they put a spoke in the wheel of others.