It is always unpleasant to realize that your interlocutor tells a lie, however it is even more unpleasant to believe in deliberate lie and to pochuvstovat itself in an awkward situation. How to define whether the interlocutor deceives you?
Instruction
1. Communicating with the person, you watch closely his gestures, a mimicry and emotions – they can tell a lot of things about that, the person lies or tells the truth. Gestures of the person who consciously lies become held down and slightly fussy.
2. The person unconsciously pulls hands to the person, tries to close them ears, hands or eyes, touches a nose or an ear and also looks away if you try to look to it in eyes.
3. The lie is shown in sharp change of emotional coloring – the interlocutor can speak very emotionally, but all emotions suddenly and can sharply disappear, and then also suddenly appear again. The deceiver can in a slowed-up way or on the contrary too sharply and to react quickly to your words and remarks.
4. His look and intonation often do not correspond each other – he can smile where there is no reason for a smile, and its mimicry can be not connected with his speech at all. If the liar speaks about something pleasant and joyful, his face can be gloomy and gloomy.
5. You monitor expression of eyes at a smile of the interlocutor – if the look remains stone, and lips smile – most likely, deceive you.
6. The movements of eyes in general can well identify the liar – at affection of a subject, unpleasant for it, eyes move sharply to the right up, and then to the left down, avoiding a direct view of you.
7. If the person lies – he will rub fingers eyelids, to cover eyes and to close them hands. The liar's hands constantly feel the need something to finger and to touch.
8. In the course of communication the deceiver will try to look away in every way from you and also to be fenced off unconsciously from you by different objects – a mug, a bottle, the book or something else.
9. At a specific question the liar can get out of definite answer, giving you instead of specifics not clear hints, avoids in the speech of pronouns and bright intonational allocations and also tries to leave from a subject.