Determination of compatibility of people represents serious interest for those who decided to start a family. This question has a set of ways of permission, including astrology, chiromancy, numerology and other sophisticated theories. However the psychology and physiology remain criteria, important for people, still.
It is required to you
- - psychological tests.
Instruction
1. To quickly define compatibility of people it will not turn out, it is process long and laborious. But if you made up the mind to a serious step under the name "marriage", perhaps, it should not be neglected.
2. Many people stake first of all on love, i.e. passions are given, give vent to the feelings. Unfortunately, the hasty relations very often are short, and couples break up, without having managed to get used to each other.
3. Estimate factors which could influence development and formation of the identity of your potential partner. It is heredity, education, psychological type, the level of development and the pursued purposes (view of the future).
4. Look at parents of the partner, biological and moral heredity forms the person as the personality in the first years of life and forever. Therefore, he gains many qualities from those people who constantly were with it nearby. Besides, track the relations in his family, likewise, most likely, your friend / girlfriend will try to construct way of your own. Whether it suits you?
5. Pay attention to how he / she behaves in the company of other people. Whether it is important to you as he / she does it and what speaks whether it coincides with how you see him / her alone with yourself. At a stage of formation of your relations the element of pretense takes place, aspirations it is better to seem. However in the future it will disappear, and you will see the real personality. Do not think that you will manage to re-educate the partner, this popular belief.
6. Define psychological type of the identity of the person. There is a lot of them, and each psychologist interprets in different ways. For example, Jung allocated four main types: feeling, intuitive, cogitative and feeling. These type it is possible to expand to eight if to remember nowadays very popular division of people into extroverts (open) and the introverts (closed).
7. Suggest the partner to pass psychological test together with you. This fascinating occupation can amuse not bad both of you, however do not forget to call it for gravity from time to time. Make several different tests for bigger confidence that your friend / girlfriend did not tell lies. As a rule, such tests assume reduction of compatibility of types.
8. Very often couples break because of distinction of the levels of development. This indicator of the personality has two aspects: main criterion and indicator of development of personal base. The choice and extent of development of living position, level of responsibility (is responsible for the acts or avoids it), maturity level (infantilism, the maturity growing or the withering personality), a perception position concerns the first (whether the partner is capable to look at a situation from the different points of view).
9. The indicator of development of personal base is the quite volume tool directed to determination of qualities and abilities of the person. For example, the level of sincere health (the neurotic or is capable to self-checking), cultures (literacy, endurance, submission to the standard standards of behavior in society), intelligence (silly, clever, wise).
10. Such qualities as ability to empathy and repentance, tolerance in relation to people around, an opportunity to independently make a choice and so forth are not less important.
11. Well and, at last, it is necessary to find out what purposes are set before himself by the partner and to define as far as they are in harmony with your own, joint life will make them the general. To change a position and aspirations of other person extremely difficult.
12. Can seem that all above-mentioned means the ideal person who in the nature is not. However this is not aboutthis is not aboutthis is not about search of perfection, and only about what suits personally you. If you are not really disturbed by some shortcomings which do not fit into reference model, do not pay attention to them. The main thing that you were imposed by his / her advantages and also the attitude towards you. After all, you are not ideal too.