"Under the lying stone water does not flow!", - the popular wisdom says. In the same way the situation and in so delicate question as creation of family is. Practically any girl wants that she had a good husband. At the same time, the modesty, shyness prevent it to show an initiative. And then the dream of the good husband for a long time can remain a dream. Therefore you should not hope that so beautiful "prince" with a smart bouquet of flowers will stand on the doorstep of her house in one wonderful morning. The happiness should be forged own hands!
Instruction
1. "Heart missed a bit!", - often speak in such cases. And it is valid: it seems not remarkable guy, there is nothing of that kind special in him, and the girl only looked at him – and of anybody another cannot think any more. And often at them very strong, loving, exemplary families turn out then. Therefore sometimes to the girl will not prevent to listen to the heart. It seldom deceives!
2. The girl, even idealizing the guy who is pleasant to her (and it quite naturally and clear!), all the same will instinctively ask itself a question: "And whether it will be able to become the good father? Whether will love our children, to care for them?" If she answers this question in the affirmative, without hesitation – means, this guy quite will approach for a role of the husband. If it has doubts (even weak, vague), then it is necessary to think very well whether to cast in the lot with such person!
3. "That marriage was happy, the husband and the wife have to be from one test!", - the father in the well-known novel "Gone with the Wind" so edified the daughter. He tried to convince the daughter that her love for the neighbor planter's son will not lead to anything good: painfully different they, literally in everything! Also it appeared the rights. Though the daughter, of course, at first persistently did not agree with the parent. Indeed, if the young man and the girl have absolutely different characters, habits, hobbies if what is pleasant to her, brings it and vice versa into mortal melancholy.
4. Ask yourself a question: it seems to you the best guy in the world, but whether you agree for the sake of it literally "to break" itself(himself), constantly to concede, go on compromises, and not in trifles, and in fundamental issues? If is not present, then this person resolutely does not suit you for husbands.
5. A lot of things irritate you in it, and it, respectively – in you? The destiny specifies: you do not suit one another! Otherwise, you would treat shortcomings far more quietly, or at all would not notice them.