"One is still wet behind the ears" - so usually speak about young people, meaning their inexperience, fervor and haste in the solution of various questions. Haste at marriage is considered especially inappropriate. Statistically, the bitter disappointment from an unsuccessful marriage most strongly is experienced by girls as they can idealize the man. Before connecting itself by family bonds, it is recommended to recognize the elect closer.
During courtings the partners try to seem better, than they are actually. Will help to learn the true qualities of the person several simple steps:
1. "Zhenolyub or misogynist". Observe how your elect behaves in relation to other women: as he speaks of mother (sister, the ex-girlfriend, the old woman neighbor, etc.) whether he gives way pregnant and elderly in public transport, etc.
2. "Gentlemen's set". Remember whether always the man opens before you a door, offers a hand at an exit from transport, helps to inform of heavy bags, etc.
3. "Sortie on others territory". Study the apartment of the elect: with whom lives, an order/disorder, etc. Even if at first sight everything is tidied up, be not too lazy to glance accidentally in a case: true idlers will simply remove all visible disorder inside, without displaying on shelves. Check fridge contents for existence of products – the "house" man always buys the range for the week ahead. Do not forget to glance to the bathroom – girls like "to be marked out" exactly there and if the guy besides you still has someone, you surely cover up tracks of women's stay in a type of hair on a hairbrush and other.
4. "Check by fight". Men can prove in uncomfortable conditions. Go hiking, for example, with a doss house in a tent. If the guy undertakes all men's duties: supports you at descent/rise on the mountain or the hill, makes fire, watches that it was convenient to you, worries whether warmly you put on, and with firmness suffers your small whims of type: "I was tired, I want to eat, I want home …, etc.", managing to entertain still you at the same time – can safely marry him.