The girl having feeling of love steadily wants to see signs of reciprocal feeling from an object of the love, but quite often it takes for them simple politeness. How to define whether really the young man has to you feelings, or it just concerns you as to one more girl and does not allocate you from crowd? There is a number of the ways allowing to understand with an accuracy whether you are pleasant to the man.
Instruction
1. You monitor nonverbal reactions of the man – behind his gestures, poses and a mimicry. For example, if you are in group of people, and the man regularly turns to you even if addresses someone to another, it can show his special sympathy to you.
2. Also you watch behavior of the man when he passes by you. If he is every time, passing by, darts a second glance at you and becomes straight, it also says that he shows to you special attention.
3. It can correct clothes at your presence, bring hands to the person, show nervousness and confusion, to smile or look away, looking at you.
4. Besides, it is important to you to learn to listen to own feelings – look narrowly at yourself, understand, how exactly you react to the pleasant people and as you behave to become for them attractive. Look for the same reactions at the young man who is pleasant to you. Even insignificant courtesies can brightly testify about him to you interest.
5. If you are pleasant to the man, he will look for any opportunity to touch you and from time to time will accidentally face you. Also he can start with you a conversation on an interesting and unusual subject, avoiding rough intonations in a voice and will try to say "we" instead of "I" or "you".
6. The voice well gives feelings of the guy – he can be deliberately tender, hoarse and worrying, or perhaps on the contrary, to be too self-confident if the guy tries to hide the feelings.
7. If you communicate already long time, but you are still not sure of its feelings, pay attention to how it places priorities. If the man sacrifices friendly parties for the sake of a meeting with you and with pleasure comes to help you with household chores and also shows sincere interest in those things which are important for you and which you live – it shows genuine interest in your person.
8. Also the man who is interested in the girl seeks to communicate with her more often and without the reasons writes her messages and letters and also calls, just to hear her voice.
9. And at last, you can ask the man personally about whether he takes a liking to you. It is unlikely he will tell you a lie on directly question posed.