Though in the relations of the husband and wife there has to be a trust, it should not be ""in pink glasses"". Treason of the husband says that in the relations something not as it should be. And finally, treason can destroy family. Often women try ""to expose"" the husband, checking his mobile phone, Internet correspondence and even pockets. However there are more reliable ways to learn whether the husband is faithful to you. And you should not resort to similar doubtful ways.
Instruction
1. The long regular "absence at work" out of working hours can be one of the first signs that the husband meets someone. Especially it is noticeable when before overtime work at the husband was not. Besides, you can notice that the husband at the same time moved away from you. Does not pay attention as before. Or, on the contrary, became in relation to you more gentle, than usually. It can mean that the husband wants to distract your attention from suspicions of his fidelity. Besides, you can notice that the husband began to watch the appearance more, than usually. Or that when he comes back from ""overtime work"", at him eyes shine. These and other signs indicate changes in your husband that can speak about him ""campaigns on the left"". However these signs entirely cannot be trusted. Perhaps, the husband really works more usual, but does not show to you attention because was tired. Perhaps, he wants ""to refresh"" your relations. Therefore it is impossible to rely only on external signs.
2. And ""campaigns on the left"" can determine tendency to flirtation by how the husband behaves in the public place. Pays all attention only to you or periodically turns around on women? Whether looks at other women the look estimating interested or "feeling"? Whether it is inclined to forwardness in a behavior manner? Whether wears the tight fitting clothes for the purpose of drawing attention of an opposite sex? If you saw these signs, you should not reproach the husband that he looks at others or puts on with the purpose to draw attention. Vo-1, reproaches change nothing. Vo-2 even if the husband will change the behavior, nature from it will not change. Vo-2, the husband will reproach you with jealousy in reply. Just draw for yourself conclusions that the husband can not resist temptation and it is not inclined to monogamy.
3. To understand whether the husband is capable of incorrectness, it is possible on a sign language. Talk confidentially to the husband and ask a simple question: "As far as the fidelity is important for you"? Perhaps, the question will seem to you a little silly, but it has one advantage. It that it is a direct question. So, assumes the direct answer. The main thing to ask a question at the right time, kind of ""by the way"". Listen not only what it tells, but also as he speaks. As far as his speech is sincere whether it is not present in a voice of bitterness, offense, rage? Whether it at the same time uses protective gestures – for example, crossing of hands on a breast? Or perhaps you felt tension in his body? Pay attention also to nonverbal signals, such as avoiding of a look, potirany lobes of an ear or a tip of a nose, a deviation of the case and shoulders from you aside. These are also protective gestures. The coquettish mimicry – for example, lips "bow", a playful smile – says that it perceives intimate relations as a game.
4. The tendency to treason can be determined also by the photo. Look at your photos where you together. It is better if these pictures in all growth. Present that in the photo between you there is a magnetic pole. If both of you equally incline to a magnetic pole, so you - harmonious couple. Or perhaps both of you deviate a magnetic pole? Or one of you deviates a magnetic pole, and another reaches for it? Happens that one partner "flirts with the camera", and another looks at him the loving look … And so, that from you who displaces the case from ""a magnetic pole"" aside can be prone to unfaithfulness. Be observant, and you will see a lot of things what did not pay attention earlier to.
5. But it is the is best of all the aura will tell him about incorrectness of the husband. After each sexual contact the aura of the person contacts aura of the sexual partner for 3 days. Even if it was the isolated case of intimate proximity, within 72 hours the aura of the person contains this information. This change in aura of the partner will tell about incorrectness of the partner better, than any external signs.
6. However think here of what. The thought is material. If all of you time think of what the husband can change you, sooner or later it will occur. Therefore on the first place there have to be not thoughts of treason, but love. Remember that no fidelity and devotion will be eternal if you criticize the husband, try to change him and do not appreciate what is.