Our feelings sometimes are so contradictory that we also cannot understand them. It would Kakzatsya, love - a thing obvious, and is evident at once not only you, but also people around. However it is not always possible to understand himself and the feelings in relation to other person. Not always it is possible to tell with confidence: ""I am in love"". Sometimes we take for love friendship, respect, and at times even hatred! To distinguish one from another, it is necessary to rummage in the internal psychology.
Instruction
1. Psychologists accurately share love and love. The first feeling - brighter, spontaneous, the second - equal and durable. Love often arises from the first or second look in the form of burning interest in the person. then this interest is replaced by admiration. If your elect or the darling is pleasant to you in all that it does: as puts on, eats, goes, smells, - means, you are in love. As a rule, at love, especially on its first time, we do not notice shortcomings of the partner. Not for nothing say in the people that ""love of an eye zastit"", that is closes critical and even objective attitude. Often lovers force events, they want to make far-reaching plans. Girls begin to think out names to future children and to dream of a style of a wedding dress. Guys acquaint the darling with the friends.
2. If you cannot understand, fallen in love or simply interested by the new person (or perhaps and the old friend), try to spend some time, without seeing it and without talking to him. At least for one day stop to communicate by phone or ""ICQ"", do not meet, do not study its page of VKontakte. Listen to the feelings. Do you miss this person? Do you keep thinking of him and you cannot be distracted by something else? Do you want to call or write immediately SMS to be convinced that is with it everything is all right? If at least you answered one question ""yes"" - means, it is love.
3. Jealousy - an integral part of love. At the same time the person can be in love not with one, and at once with several. And will be jealous all of them. Because chemical reactions in an organism start the program of a sobstvennichestvo. You are in love if all the time you want to be near the elect and are irritated if someone else applies for this role. You want to take away the beloved 9ili the beloved) so far that it was got there by neither friends, nor admirers, nor relatives.