The easy romantic relations which do not oblige to anything, probably, a dream of very many men and women. However such relations cannot last long. Sooner or later they have to develop into something bigger, or at all come to naught. If in your life there is darling whom you do not want to lose, and on the contrary to strengthen the relations, then this article for you now.
Instruction
1. At whatever stage your relations were, always honestly answer such questions as: Whether this person is necessary to me? Whether I am ready to be reconciled with its habits, shortcomings? Amuse yourself with illusions that when your relations become more serious, these features will be gone, or you will be able to change the darling. If you already have a desire to remake it whether then such person is necessary to you nearby in general?
2. Keep in mind, as you and your potential half are persons with huge inner world who always have to have corner. That is even if you constantly together, at both of you have to be the interests, the time for a meeting with friends and for the hobbies. It will help you not to lose interest to each other, to you what will share with each other. There is nothing worse, than the read book. To it seldom return, usually address new.
3. Self-esteem and self-confidence – an important component of your relations. At the initial stage the initiative has to proceed equally both from you and from your partner. It is not necessary to bother constantly it with the calls, so you not only interfere in its personal space, but also do not leave it a scope for maneuvers.
4. Be able to ask and offer the help. The man needs to let know that need his help, the woman – that it is guarded and loved. But, do not make a claim about outstanding promises at all. Everyone has also other duties, other interests and requirements. Not always you – the center of the Universe. If you adequately treat that has to and that your partner should not, you will have less offenses, expectations and quarrels.
5. You learn to talk with each other. Often women take offense at the men that they are inattentive and cannot guess what she wants. However men not psychics. It will be better if both partners openly report each other about the needs, expectations. Subjects for a talk different. It can be your sexual relations, your plans what you would like to see in your relations and so on. The conversation is especially important when there is some misunderstanding. If you appreciate, then respect each other, you speak with each other more often and your relations only will get stronger.