Some girls face such unpleasant phenomenon: their beloved lie! And all right it would be talked of some harmless imaginations. Lies, insincerity concerns such things which are very important for the girl. The guy can swear to it love, in passing promising that preparation for a wedding just about will begin. And then there are all new and new "good reasons" for postponement of this event. Situations there can be a set. How to disaccustom the young man to lie? And whether it is worth maintaining the relations with liars in general?
Instruction
1. In each case you should behave differently, depending on many factors: durations of your novel, depth and sincerity of feelings to the young man, character, temperament, and, of course, education. There are no universal "recipes" of behavior here.
2. Try to understand for what reason the young man lied to you. It is very important! For example, "the curator of the large project" sincerely loves you, values your relations, but whether was ashamed to admit that he holds very modest position, whether was afraid that you will lose to it interest, do not want to meet. Here also "promoted" himself.
3. In the above-written case, of course, lies does not doof to the man of honor, but also a special sin here too is not present. It is the best of all for you seriously, but kindly will have a talk with darling, having told that you were very much upset also by his insincerity, and the fact that he so badly thought of you that he could present that his status plays a crucial role! If he wants your relations to proceed, let will forget about lies. And then remind him that all in his hands. Wants to promote – for God's sake. Let will make efforts, persistence.
4. If the guy again and furthermore repeatedly, it is caught on insincerity, to you it is necessary or to overcome itself and to break off such relations, or to resort to strong, tough, but effective reception: threaten that you will make of him a laughing-stock before mutual friends, acquaintances, colleagues. Let all learn what he is a liar and the boaster. As a rule, this threat works. Few what young man will want to appear in such light.
5. Well, and even if it did not help, it is necessary to run from such guy far away! Why do you need the pathological liar? On light enough reliable, honest men of whom you will surely meet one.