Computer games turned into the most real damnation for many families long ago. If earlier parents had to watch that children not too were fond of virtual wars to the detriment of real study, then now wives complain that their husbands became kind of virtual too. Day and night sit at the computer and play. In the heads some "levels", "groups", "armor".
Instruction
1. First, try to understand that for many people leaving in "virtuality" is an escape from unpleasant reality. Quietly and whenever possible impartially, analyze that in your family "not so". Remember that look at the same things of the man and woman differently! Perhaps the husband is irritated by your talkative girlfriend coming to you "on a spark" nearly every evening? Or in the same way your mother who got used with the impudence inherent in many mothers-in-law arrives to put in oar? Then try to reduce contacts with them to a reasonable minimum.
2. Perhaps the fact is that the husband simply feels unnecessary, he has nothing to do? Alas, the role of the man and father of family in modern conditions, especially in the large cities, is strongly belittled. Try "to inspire" him on the occupations appropriate to men. Let will try to sheathe, for example, a tree a loggia! Suggest it this idea type arguments: "Children often are ill in the winter because in the apartment it is cold also drafts, here if the loggia was warm, wooden …" And do not climb with councils, hints at all. Let itself will estimate how many and what material it is necessary to reserve, itself saws and hammers nails. Do not forget to praise sincerely even if the quality of work will be not really.
3. As a last resort try a painful, but effective way – "like cures like". The husband got used what sits at the computer, and breakfasts-lunches-dinners, the clean and ironed shirts appear by itself? Deprive of it these illusions. Pretend that so were fond of computer games that you have no time to prepare now, to remove, erase, iron. It, as a rule, helps even with especially hard cases of game dependence of the husband.
4. Talk to the husband, explain to him that it not absolutely is pleasant to you that you want love and caress. You can suggest him to go to restaurant or to go on the nature. Show that with you it is not worse, than in its virtual world.