To distinguish love from love, fleeting hobby happens not easy. The person in love is so shipped in the feeling that not always adequately estimates degree of its depth. It in itself is not bad, but only until you do not take any serious steps in your relations. Love can disappear, and obligations and responsibility will remain. However, not always love comes to an end with disappointment, it can quite develop into more serious feeling. For this reason you need to analyze at some point thoughtfully that you feel.
Instruction
1. Define what attracts you in the partner. Whether only external data or still something? Whether you will be able to call many lines of your partner which distinguish him for you from others? In case of true love, you deeply feel the partner therefore you know many nuances of his character, and they attract you. In case of love the characteristic of lines of the partner usually comes down to banal and superficial: beautiful, clever, cheerful, careful, etc. It does not demonstrate to depth of the relations
2. The love cannot be based only on sex. Present how your attitude with the partner would be changed if you were deprived of an opportunity to make love. Superficial feelings usually do not maintain this simple test.
3. Pay attention to how you feel in separation from the partner. If eventually you lose to it interest, begin to switch to others, so in your case this is not aboutthis is not aboutthis is not about serious love.
4. How does your feeling influence your activity? If thoughts of darling turn to you the head, you cannot focus on the achievements in other areas, most likely, you are at a hobby stage. The true love, on the contrary, inspires you on feats and fulfillment, promotes self-development.
5. Whether you find desire to communicate with friends, the family in yourself, or your relations with the partner completely took your consciousness? The true love does not interfere with other areas of your life.
6. In case of true love, desire to make happy the partner repeatedly overcomes desire to receive from it something.