Men, even great conspirators, sometimes come across, and most often on trifles. And women with fear conduct detailed investigations. Find out with alarm - who where with whom and why, trying to distinguish men's treason. It is easy to spoil the relations suspicions, and here it is difficult to restore trust.
1. For a start decide what you will do with the truth if your man really changes. Then there will be a choice — to continue the relations or to leave. Think as far as whether you are independent psychologically and ready to change a lot of things. Count whether you will be able to be independent in the financial plan, or your personal income does not allow to have even own housing. If there are children, think that, perhaps, you should "pull" them alone, quite often happens so that from the former spouses of family do not see not only material, but also moral support. If you are ready to learning the bitter truth, begin to act.
2. Consider that almost all men who change feel guilty. And it means that your man, perhaps, will try to wash away guilt unconsciously. Sudden gifts, attention, unusual for it earlier responsiveness. Of course, you should not consider all this as obligatory sign of treason. Perhaps he just read any article about the family relations and decided to please you. However if he in general behaves strange, atypically, it is an occasion to think.
3. It is necessary to be observant and to chronicle treason systematically, not from time to time. One business if you just saw the man with another in the park, another – you established that they meet every Monday in the apartment of friends. Notice fine details and you find coincidence. Usually the last mean that not everything is clean.
4. Be careful in the actions. Do not resort to frankly low blows. The private detective whom you employed can sell information for higher price, it is not so easy to hide breaking of e-mail, and if to find you behind reading messages in its phone, then it will be very difficult to justify itself to you. And the relations will be even more difficult to be restored, especially if you really find proofs of treason. You should not risk. Better, as well as it befits the clever woman, apply analytical skills and comparison of the facts. And, above all, look for the reason that your darling ceased to perceive you as the only woman in the life.