Marriage speculators broke not one female heart. Unfortunately, even skilled and clever mature ladies sometimes trust in such men, without having managed to make out in them swindlers. However there are several signs on which it is possible to distinguish the marriage speculator, and women are followed about them by the nobility.
Instruction
1. Pay attention to questions which the man asks you most often. If they anyway concern your property, it is necessary to prick up the ears. May heMay heMay he ask about that, where do you live, you have a car and if is not present whether then you plan it to buy, whether the rich you have parents and whether they will leave you inheritance, etc.
2. If the man found out quite a lot about your property, try to tell kind of accidentally to him that, for example, you bought the apartment on credit and you cannot pay off with bank in any way. Look at reaction of your interlocutor, try to notice changes in his behavior.
3. Argue on importance of the marriage contract. As a rule, swindlers, having seen that the victim does not plan to leave the property and already knows how to be protected, lose to it interest.
4. Ask the man about his life and work. As a rule, marriage speculators reluctantly speak about themselves. Some of them claim that they even have own business, but during the appointments with the beautiful and attractive woman they cannot think of work.
5. Check a contact information of the admirer. Marriage speculators in certain cases prefer to change phone numbers and to move from place to place. If the man persuades you to go at least once together to you home, but does not allow to visit his apartment, it is necessary to prick up the ears.
6. You ask the man to acquaint you with his relatives and try to acquaint him with your parents and friends. Marriage speculators avoid contacts with relatives of the victim and also try not to allow it to get acquainted with his family.
7. Pay attention to behavior of the admirer. If he is romantic, gentle and witty, but at the same time constantly complains of a difficult life and tries to achieve from you support, understanding and readiness to help, most likely, before you the marriage speculator. He is attentive and obedient, reads gentle verses, gives bouquets and wastes compliments, but it is only a way to lull into a false sense of security the woman.