If the girl all free time watches soap operas, it negatively affects the relations. She spends time not on useful occupations, and on stories which are created for pensioners. It is necessary to change her life, to bring in it something new and fascinating.
Soap operas are included into life of those at whom few events take place in reality. People watch experience of heroes, admire their adventures, but at the same time pass all that can occur in their life. But you should not accuse them, often it is simple to them to be engaged not in what.
Ban or replacement
If to forbid the person to watch movies or to deprive of him access to Internet or the TV, nothing good will occur. Most likely there will be scandals about it, serious offenses and excess concern. Aggression seldom helps to resolve issues therefore it is necessary to look for soft decisions. Pressure, blackmail and requirements can work for some time, but in the long term nothing will turn out.
Psychologists claim that it is necessary not to cancel something, and to look for replacement. For example, if you invite it in restaurant, she will refuse the movie? It is important to understand that the single campaign will not yield result as next day series to proceed. It is necessary to occupy it several days, and it is better than weeks or months in a row that plots became not so interesting to it. Think up adventures which will carry away it more, than stories in the TV, make her life more fascinating, than series. Also it is not necessary to think that it is difficult, important to show imagination only.
How to make life is brighter
Begin with the fact that pay attention to yourself: what are you doing, when she watches TV? Perhaps and you play games at this time or sit with on social networks, and to her it can be not to liking too. Make the decision to spend time together, and look for hobbies which will be interesting to her. For example, begin to master new sport. It can be driving on skis or rollers, bicycle walks, swimming. Offering such leisure, place emphasis that you will be engaged in it together. If the sport did not approach, begin to look for the general hobby. It can be anything: from an embroidery before cutting out by the fret saw. But not collecting, namely something, demanding efforts is better. Self-development is very interesting occupation and to go together to realization of goals, happens very fascinatingly. Find the idea and you seek to embody it together, perhaps in a couple of years it will bring you millions. Begin to visit interesting places of your city. Not necessarily expensive institutions, it is possible also ordinary exhibitions, the museums, parks and squares. Even the decline over the river which is absolutely free can become a grandiose show. Options of entertainments can be much, connect the friends that they helped to pull out the girl from the house, distracted from series. And in few months you will notice that active holiday and meetings with you will be much more pleasant it than the company of the TV.