Even in the strongest family there can be such situation sooner or later: spouses begin to bother each other. Really: they are studied, as they say, "up and down" long ago, all their habits, merits and demerits are known. And everyday family routine, same duties. All this promotes that communication between the husband and the wife becomes more and more cold, formal. And it is fraught with unpleasant consequences: discontent, mutual reproaches, quarrels, in the most hard cases – family breakdown. How to diversify communication?
Instruction
1. You remember the wise truth: "In the woman there has to be some riddle!" It seems to the husband that in you there is no secret left what you can surprise with nothing him? Cardinally change the image! Make absolutely new, unusual, a hairstyle, recolour hair, pick up an original make-up, update clothes.
2. The husband has to try too that communication with the wife did not remind departure of "duty". Of course, desire to sit on a convenient sofa in front of the TV after intense labor week is clear and natural. But whether it is better to get out to the nature, or on a visit to friends? And maybe, to visit theater or a concert? You there were not so long ago and after the cultural action it is possible to discuss what was seen.
3. If you notice that in family the talk comes down to discussion of affairs at work, cardinally change tactics. You can esteem or look at information on what most of all is pleasant the husband, for example, of transfer about cars, and at supper to discuss novelties at the market of a car.
4. You remember the rule: "The monotony kills!" Try to surprise each other though some, let with the smallest, surprises. The wife "mastered" an original, tasty dish – unless not a reason for the husband that sincerely to praise her? Or the husband himself, on own initiative, hung up over its "a working corner" the lamp that the wife did not damage eyesight at needlework – already a reason for the spouse to come to good mood.
5. Do not neglect sex at all! Resolutely reject silly and, alas, very widespread prejudice as if only morally unstable, dissolute people can "experiment" in this area. Show imagination, relaxedness! But, of course, any "experiments" have to take place only by mutual consent. If something causes confusion, especially – resolute rejection of one of partners, the second partner should not insist on it.
6. Strangely enough, temporary "distance" of spouses can sometimes help. When they constantly in the eyes each other when literally "live" with each other, it inevitably will begin to bother sooner or later. The good method is to find to itself an interesting hobby, it is the best of all – in the form of club on interests. Having been engaged in the hobby, communicating with new people, you get a lot of positive emotions.