Still quite recently you swore an oath each other about one-way eternal love. Passed only several years of joint life as your plans and hopes cardinally changed, ahead a divorce which cause was a treason of your beloved wife.
Instruction
1. Release from a ring on a finger became obsession from which husbands become skoropospeshny in the conclusions and quite often accept irrevocable, not always the right decisions. One becomes clear in this situation: it is necessary to work. However often there are doubts about whether to wait a little more or at once to file for a divorce. According to experts, betrayal of the wife – not only a psychological trauma for her husband, but also crushing on his vanity which often is absolutely unexpected. If there was it that your spouse preferred the relations on the party, do not lower the self-assessment at all. Realize that you do not concede it in anything to the lover, do not forget about the physical and intellectual qualities. Discuss the incident with the wife and find out what did not suit her in your family life that led it to taking this step.
2. The most important - it is necessary to react to all event with advantage, it is not necessary to fall, resorting to scandals and the conflicts. Women's treason – a treacherous act, it is also not necessary to allow the spouse to humiliate you even more. You do not heat the grief in alcohol at all. It will only aggravate a situation and will not help to solve a problem in any way. Do not try to learn about the one who attracted and enticed your blessed, be higher than it, whatever one may do, and the wife is more guilty of the forthcoming divorce.
3. Do not forget also that partially at adultery there is also your fault. Reconsider an image of your joint family life prior to the event. Perhaps, you showed not enough attention to the wife, and it strongly offended her. Besides, there is also it that the wife revenged you for your tears or accidental extramarital affairs, and she perfectly knew that you had other girl. Perhaps, the spouse long time was in loneliness for any reasons, she could not agree to treason without a certain occasion.
4. Anyway, the husband is faced by a difficult question: what to do next and how to divorce. If you realized that you will not be able to forgive unfaithfulness of the spouse in any way, then better at once file for a divorce. The married couples which do not have children can divorce without excess noise, and here in case you have children, you should appeal to court. You have to specify the cause of a divorce in the statement. Some men read the treason fact from the beloved, and some try to hide it.
5. Besides, besides the petition for divorce, you need to make the claim for the section of property which was acquired in common in marriage. Remember that you still need to resolve an issue of that with whom children after your parting will live. As a rule, the court gives preference of mother, but you have full authority to see them several times a week. In certain cases there is an opportunity to challenge such decision, and to leave children with the father.
6. The application for collecting alimony for keeping of minor children is written by the person with whom they will live. Some people consider that it is humiliating to give on alimony, however you have to understand that you do it not for the sake of yourself, and for the sake of the posterity.
7. After drawing up the documents necessary for a divorce, you pay the state fee which amount you will be told, and only after that your application will be considered.
8. Even if you make the decision to remain from darling, you remember that to regain the trust and mutual respect will be very difficult. Pain from treachery will remain still for a long time, but in case of forgiveness live in the present, without remembering the past and without reproaching the wife with her mistakes.