Indifference of the spouse always very much touches the woman. It is better to live with scandals, scenes of jealousy, than in general without any interest. In this case there is a wish to change the direction of its feelings and to attract attention.
Perhaps, he was simply tired?
First of all it is worth understanding whether on the business of spouses to you grew cold. It is possible the fact is that he overtired at work or not really well feels and for this reason he does not have for you forces.
It is also necessary to consider that the man can show the attention differently: some load with presents gifts, drive at cinema and restaurants. Others are not capable of similar acts therefore they help with house efforts, care for the wife and children, thereby showing the love and attention. Of course, the ideal man has to combine all these qualities, to be both careful, and romantic, and courageous.
You should not compare the man to others. Even if girlfriends tell you as their husbands shower in their flowers and diamonds, and your spouse pleases only with cleaning in the apartment, it does not mean at all that his interest in you is lost. Just his love is shown to you through care and efforts, but not through expensive gifts.
Reasons of inattention of the husband
Any disease begin to treat with correctly made diagnosis. Therefore the woman for a start has to find out that she is prerequisites of inattention of the spouse. The reasons can be absolutely different: - confidence of the man is that his woman will never leave him; - male selfishness when he considers that the wife to it, and not vice versa has to show attention; - treason, hobby for other woman; - harm, the husband was simply tired to be good; - the spouse stopped loving the wife. If it is good to study features of character of the husband, then with ease it is possible to define for what reason his attitude towards you was changed. But what would not be the reason, always everything can be returned. For this purpose it is worth being a little more cunning and more patient.
How to fight against it?
In such situation many women reproach the men that to them the attention suffices, caress, perhaps, even begins to suspect it of treason. Such reproaches very much irritate husbands and they instead of heat and caress bring down the aggression on the spouse. It is known that men are visual. Therefore pay attention to yourself, change something in appearance, change image, correct a figure, update clothes. Revise the behavior lately, become more attentive and tender in relation to the man. Only love and understanding it is possible to achieve the correct result.