You matured already enough that to meet someone. There was a concern that young people do not show to you any interest. And you, on the contrary, began to notice more often that you are surrounded by some couples in love. You would like to draw attention of the guy, but recent failures endured by you stop you. There are thoughts of own unattractiveness. Whether it is possible to correct it? How to draw attention of the pleasant young man and at the same time not to drop the advantage?
It is required to you
- - skills of communication
Instruction
1. Sort out yourself. Tell yourself honestly what you want. It is necessary to recognize that some girls just want male attention. And the more children will become interested in them, the better. Other girls decided on the choice and wait for attention from a certain prince. Well, and if you are attracted by the serious long relations with the guy, it quite another matter, and more will promote achievement of your purpose.
2. Be observant. If you are ready seriously, do not regret time for taking a detached view of the guy. If it likes ninnies at whom the character, and you not from those was not built up yet, then you will not manage to hold its attention on yourself. Leave it and forget. The worthy young man will pay attention to your sincere qualities. Use it as the trump card.
3. Look after yourself, remembering modesty. The attention can be drawn also with grotesque style. Much more attractively the girl who is dressed with taste looks and it is modest. Let your clothes whisper about your dreams, but do not shout of desperate thirst of attention. Excesses and negligence will push away the serious guy rather, than will draw his attention.
4. Improve the ability to communicate. The acute guy notices everything. Attract him with the softness in a voice and not verbosity. You stick to valid style. It will be reflected in ability to listen, without interrupting. You share the opinion, but without categoriality. Dominating in a conversation and insisting on the, you will discourage at the guy to listen to you. In a conversation hint that you know that you want from life. But do not brag of the achievements. Having noticed an error in the words of the interlocutor, refrain from corrections.
5. You watch the mood. Instead of whims express content. In a conversation with the guy you should not criticize the family, especially "ancestors". The cheerfulness will quicker draw attention and for a long time will keep it, than vulnerability and sensitivity.