Sometimes there are situations when the love and the relations become in burden, and the person decides that it is better for it to be alone. In this case it is necessary to report about it correctly to the soulmate not to inflict on her sincere suffering.
Instruction
1. Solve whether really you want to leave darling. Weigh everything pros and cons and look what will move. With this decision it is better not to hurry as desire to leave the girl can be temporary and arise for such reasons as a quarrel, a stress, jealousy, need to leave, etc. You have to realize that the way back, most likely, will not be any more.
2. Be adjusted on a serious conversation with your soulmate, think over all your possible phrases, her reaction to the similar statement. At once decide how you will calm the girl whether you will be able to communicate with her further.
3. Try to bring the girl to a conversation. Within several days keep the depressed look, you speak with the soulmate as seldom as possible. Remember all negative that most of all is not pleasant in you to the girl. For example, begin to spend more time with friends again, stop to make her gifts, forget for a while about romanticism. Over time the girl herself will want to talk to you and already at once will understand that with the relations something is not right.something is not right.something is not right.
4. Communicate in a quiet situation. State all reasons for which you want to leave. Do not raise the voice and do not swear. It is not necessary to call all negative lines of the girl, it will even more upset her. To leave darling always very hard, but if she understands you, then with firmness will sustain loss.
5. Be ready to probable scandal from the girl. Just in case remove far away personal belongings and also various dangerous objects. You speak only confidentially, at all do not sort out the relations by phone or on correspondence on the Internet. It is important that you were near and at once helped the girl to calm down.
6. Watch behavior of the girl after your parting. If she is in a long depression, do not try to talk to it, so it will only be worse. Try to ask someone from your mutual friends to talk to it and to calm.