Rivals often appear in life of any given person. And absolutely not very well woman it or man. And of course everyone who faced appearance of ""third wheel"" (or in private life, or in work) wants to be better, more interesting and more attractive. And besides there are several ways as it is possible to eliminate softly and without serious consequences the competitor.
Instruction
1. If you came up against a situation when you had a rival, then, first of all, you need to learn about nanometer, it is as much as possible. In the sphere of your interests there have to be his musical addictions, as he behaves at work what people he prefers on communication, etc. After you collect so detailed information, you will be able to improve yourself in some areas that on its background not to lose.
2. One of councils recommendations sounds so: make friends with it. Friends trust each other the most intimate secrets and thoughts. Having learned its weakest points and the parties, it will be simpler after to eliminate it. However this way is very doubtful in the decency. Therefore if ""to go on corpses"" is not your method, then it is better to look for ways of disposal of the competitor in more intelligent ways.
3. As option, it is possible to find out its weak points or negative sides. Then at the first opportunity show them to people around. It is the best of all to perform such operation in a complex with the fact that you will have no such shortcomings. So, on its background you will look most advantageously. For example, you know that your rival considers that to give flowers to the woman is a waste of money. Not only that you can sound this its position publicly, so also can make on the contrary him to the principles - give flowers to ladies more often.
4. Eliminating the rival, do not forget that you have to be benevolent and externally objective at this moment. Such person is trusted more, and you will have much more chances to settle accounts quicker with the competitor. Especially, if he is a person depressive or the grumbler. You on its background will look just a nice fellow.
5. If you want that the rival made the mistakes independently, then force it to be nervous. Excessive uneasiness is the reason of many hasty and not right decisions which do not do well to any business (neither love, nor labor).
6. However nevertheless it is better as psychologists of an event advise not to force and not to be engaged in impartial affairs (setting up the person). People around are able to make own opinion. And here your acts can emerge on a surface sooner or later. And then you can already be eliminated as the disturbing and annoying competitor.