In life of each person there are moments when friendly support is necessary for it for improvement of mood and resolute actions. Gender stereotypes about it claim that girls need such support more often than guys. Whether so it or not – a controversial issue. But the fact that girls are more inclined to show the need for encouragement – the fact.
1. That you could cope with bad mood of the girlfriend, try to find and remove its cause. Hints on search of such reasons are senseless, can spoil mood to the girl practically everything. Therefore the irritating incentive in each case will be individual. Your task, having analyzed a situation, to deal with it.
2. At this stage it is worth remembering wisdom that it is necessary to distinguish things which we can change, and those which are not subject to us. The first will require forces, for the second – humility. Tell about it to the girl.
3. Trying to encourage the girlfriend, whenever possible avoid statements with negative assessment in its address. Not everyone is able to perceive criticism and not everyone is able to present it structurally. And with sad mood any remarks are perceived as more offensive.
4. Bad example: "It in your style: to leave everything for the last moment, now it is necessary to rake this blockage".
5. Good example: "Yes, many cases collected, you want, I will help you with some of them?"
6. It does not mean that the criticism is inappropriate in principle more likely it is necessary to choose for it suitable time when the girl is ready to listen to you.
7. Psychologists proved long ago that close physical contact with close people improves mood. In other words, for vigorous mood the thicket needs to embrace. The girlfriend can also make massage. So, for example, massage in vorotnikovy area improves inflow of blood to the head and positively affects work of a brain.
8. Treat the girl with bitter chocolate. In a number of products including sweets from cocoa beans, contain endorphins. Getting to an organism, they make us for some time happier.
9. One more effective way to encourage the girl is just to be near her. Understanding that she can always rely on you will give her forces and self-confidence.