Human relations – very fragile matter. If you miss once an opportunity to be with the girl who is really dear to you, is practically not present chances to return everything back. Therefore if the break with darling nevertheless occurred – it is necessary to try to endure it and to draw certain conclusions from the event. But how to endure parting with someone who was the most important for you the person on the earth until recently?
Instruction
1. Get rid of reminders on the girl, with which left. It does not mean solemn burning on a fire of your general things, gifts and photos at all. Just put everything that is possible, in a box and send to the storeroom to become dusty. Believe, despite anger attacks which now probably seize you, after some time from unpleasant these reminders will turn into what forces you to smile. Therefore just remove everything that reminds that until recently you were together, far away from eyes and wait for appearance of grandsons that to show all this to them.
2. Try to distract from sad thoughts. Go to have a good time with friends – cinema, soccer, attractions, joint visits of bar (in bar the main thing not to touch and not to lose face) – everything what you refused to yourself earlier because were in the relations. The more often near you there will be someone with whom to you it is comfortable, the quicker you remember pleasures of usual barchelor life and most likely, will feel much easier.
3. Introduce something new in the life what earlier time was not enough for you for. For example, it can be a new hobby, either a new computer game, or the interesting book. Find to yourself pleasant and that the most important, a new type of entertainment. By the way, it can be not only leisure, you can find to yourself new work and steep in building relations with new collective. You remember, the more new and fascinating, the it is less than memories of old sincere wounds.
4. Be engaged in search of the new passion. After all, your girl was not the last female individual suitable you though first, it seems absolutely in a different way. However take the first step – go to club or to the company of friends and begin to communicate with attractive girls. You will see that among them there are a lot of people pleasant to you. Does well to nobody to be obsessed therefore just move further and all old by itself will disappear, and experiences will cease to torment you.