At all seeming incongruity of the words "divorce and pregnancy" it also happens. Rather many women appear in a situation when learn about pregnancy how the relations with the husband are broken off or cannot just continue to live with the spouse even because of the situation. Universal recommendations in this case just be cannot, but if to be guided by certain rules, the composure will be easier to be found.
Instruction
1. First of all you remember that the child is not guilty that he is born in this situation and to decide on abortion is the last of possible solutions. Certainly, it is very terrible to remain one with the small child on hands, but the old proverb says that God gives the child, means gives also on the child. Therefore it is necessary to think soberly and to try to minimize divorce consequences not to do much harm to future kid.
2. You will analyze a situation and try to understand the event reasons. If the husband could not cope with responsibility conferred on him and, having learned about future paternity, left whether then such partner in life is necessary? The child needs that father who will help his mother with all situations whatever hard they were.
3. You do not blame for the event of even if separate omissions are available. In this case break in relations already took place also from understanding that at some actions there were mistakes, it will not be easier. Besides, the fact that the man left the pregnant woman also does not do him special credit.
4. Do not expect that there are ways of that, how to worry divorce without serious consequences. Alas, it will be painfully obligatory, but expectation of the child will not allow to relax and be engaged in self-flagellation. Over time feelings will become dull, and the view of the smiling baby will cause only gloating in relation to the ex-husband who cannot enjoy this miracle.