From quarrels and quarrels any family is not insured. Perhaps, such moments are even necessary to reconsider the views of the relations and to appreciate the partner even more. But that the quarrel did not develop into a big abyss between spouses, it needs to perceive and be not to made correctly rash acts.
Instruction
1. Sustain a pause. After the quarrel it is better not to hurry to continue to sort out the relations. Even if you feel that you already cooled down and are ready to talk, let's calm down to your partner. All people different, and someone has not enough several minutes or even hour quietly to react to any word told right after the quarrel. Sit in silence, be distracted by daily affairs, trying not to think of what occurred between you.
2. Do not wind yourself. For certain both you, and at the husband have own vision of a problem which rose between you. And it is not obligatory that one of you is right, and another categorically is not present. Understand that both spouses are guilty of any similar situation. Whether it is worth looking for the guilty person, to get to the bottom of quarrel sources? Perhaps, it is better to forgive the husband for the sharp words told in your address in the heat of a quarrel and most to ask forgiveness.
3. Look at a problem with eyes of the half. Analyze why he considers quite so why he does not agree with you. Perhaps, you will understand why you did not meet opinions in any specific question and will be able to think up as to both of you to compromise. Do not think at all that your relations reached a deadlock. From any situation there is an exit. And if both of you try to meet halfway each other, at you it will turn out to reconcile and draw the correct conclusions on how it is worth behaving at such moments.
4. Do not give vent to the pride. This noble feeling is absolutely inappropriate in the family relations. Even if to you it is difficult, try to cool down and calm down as soon as possible after the quarrels. Never forget that your husband is near, and every minute spent in the bad relations with each other can result in big difficulties in the relations. Do not push away the spouse if he was suitable for reconciliation by the first. For certain to it it was difficult to forget about pride too and to decide to apologize. Be not cold with the half, try that there were as little as possible similar moments in your joint life.