It is heavy to be separated from darling for long time always, especially, when feelings are very strong. But if to look at such situation from a different angle, it will be much easier to transfer it.
Try not to be obsessed with a thought of long separation. From the fact that all of you time will feel sorry for yourself, to suffer and think of long days of loneliness, absolutely nothing will change. Service of the guy in army yet not doomsday. It would be much worse if you left forever because of a small quarrel. Think of the young man, to him it will be much heavier far from habitual life and family.
Look at similar parting as on an opportunity to check force and sincerity of your feelings. This test is possible will make you even more natively and more closely to each other. Both of you will understand that separation means, and learn to appreciate any minute spent together.
Being at distance, you will be able to write long letters by means of which still you know each other better. People can be not always dug out completely at personal contact, tell about the true feelings or dreams. In letters it is sometimes much simpler to make it. Perhaps, by means of them you will open in the guy a lot of new and interesting. Only be not upset if darling does not write you too often. Understand that it you on drawing up the message have a lot of free time, and it is not in army just. And there is nothing to describe there – each next day is similar to previous, and to paint the feelings and experiences on several pages not each guy will be able. That it was easier to endure parting, it is possible to set for himself some significant object which it is necessary to achieve to arrival of the guy from army. For example, to make the figure more fine-molded and tightened to appear before darling in all beauty. Or to learn a foreign language in a year. Think up to yourself interesting hobby, the benefit that free time now you will have more. Take, for example, dancing classes, you go to the gym or to the pool, sign up for photo courses, be taught to play the guitar or to drive. Do not become reserved. Separation is heavy, but you should not aggravate this feeling, staying at home every day. Go out with the friends, study, have a good time, and you will see how quickly and quickly this year will pass.