Parting of subjects is heavier, than the leaving person was closer and dearer to you. To men to endure break in relations from darling also difficult, as well as to women. That without special losses to pass this period, it is important to keep hope for the best and to find forces to enjoy life.
1. Get rid of everything that could remind you of the former beloved. You will throw out its things, objects with her name or initials, remove joint photos and videos from the apartment. Erase its number and messages in the mobile phone and on the answering machine of house. Rearrange furniture, buy new bed linen and covers to create feeling of novelty. If any objects have high material value, and it just grieves you to get rid of them, remove them far away in a case or lodge to friends that they did not catch sight to you until it becomes easier for you.
2. Make a new route of movement on the city accidentally not to face darling at a stop or just on the street. Until feelings cooled down, do not visit parks, restaurants, cafe and movie theaters where you liked to be together, you go to other shops. Try not to watch some time romantic movies and not to listen to gentle music that memoirs did not recover in you again. Change clothes style, put on as it is pleasant to you, use other aroma.
3. You do not retire into oneself. Let you be surrounded all the time by the friends and close people capable to support, console and entertain. Invite them on a visit, organize joint actions and agree to offers to meet. Meet new girls, perhaps, one of them will manage to cure your heart. If it is difficult for you to share experiences with other people, write them on paper. Then you can burn it, symbolizing thus disposal of sufferings.
4. Make a new daily routine so that all of you time were busy with something. Then will once indulge in you to sad thoughts. Work more, it is especially pleasant if it brings you both simplification, and additional profit. Register in sports section or gym, the sport helps to splash out energy. Begin to learn foreign languages, read more to distract from sad thoughts. Go to a travel, new impressions can eclipse old experiences and offenses.
5. Do not fall before insults to the former beloved at all. Thus you will only expose yourself responsible for separation, and your mutual friends will hardly understand you. Alcohol will become also bad assistant, it will kill loss pain only for the period of its use.