At the moment when you learn about treason of the soulmate, apparently, that the whole world falls and life gains gray color. To endure such moral blow happens quite difficult therefore it is important to know how to behave not to provoke a severe depression.
In the first days after parting with darling it is possible to dare to give in a little to sufferings, however they should not develop into a hysterics or strong frustration. It is the best of all to spend these days alone with himself not to break on people. It is very important to reconcile to the incident and to understand that not to change the event any more. It is necessary to try to get it together and not to make quick decisions.
That the nobility how further to behave, important to understand how serious was treason and what consequence at it. If communication was single and frivolous, it is possible to pretend that nothing occurred not to spoil the improved relations. Many men change not because stopped loving, and just for a change and changes of feelings. If after treason it is impossible to keep the relations, it is not necessary to make scandal and noisy quarrels. It is better to discuss a situation and to disperse quietly.
After treason it is not necessary to be obsessed and blame on it himself, it is better to find to itself occupation which will allow to relax and distract from negative thoughts. The first period is recommended to be devoted to itself and the thoughts. Not to begin to hate the man who changed it is the best of all to begin to remember all pleasant moments of joint life. It is better if good memories do not allow to draw hasty conclusions and to make rash decisions.
Forgiveness will be the most right exit from a similar situation. Even if it will be very heavy, it is necessary to show over himself efforts. It is very important to cope with a stress and rage that they did not corrode from within. If there is desire to begin to cry, better not to restrain. After that sports activities or dances will be an effective method of return to former life. It is also very good to send the energy to the creative course.
It is not necessary to blame himself for treason as most often it is not the woman or her behavior. If treacheries happened repeatedly, it is the best of all to break off the relations with such man and to try to start new communication. It is necessary to realize that the ideal relations do not happen therefore it is necessary to learn to cope with different difficulties and the unpleasant moments.