Living every day according to the same scenario, adjoining side by side to the same people – not in everything, maybe, congruent with you – it is possible to reach a white kaleniye in monotony of days, monotonous melancholy and despondency. Native faces anyway "become boring", and the everyday flooring becomes favorable circumstances for quarrels and the conflicts, dissonance.
Instruction
1. Go "by contradiction" – do not interact. Have a rest from tension of "neighbourhood", minimize all your contacts, be laconic and reserved. In those minimum necessary dialogues which you should conduct keep the greatest possible correctness and sensitivity. Do not try to vent rage and spleen upon the relative, during a time of internal "crisis" better just be engaged in something easy, easy and pleasant – for example, listen to beautiful music, take a bath, drink a cup of tasty hot tea.
2. Family – a stronghold of soul and a body – the most valuable that the person can have. In family he looks for support, a consolation and hope during the difficult periods of life, shares the pleasures and experiences with family. All burdens and adversities seem surmountable when you feel a support under legs when you feel the worthiness and demand. But what if "lodge" is, and there is no "necessity" –?
3. Interesting common cause can save a family schooner from sinking. "Patch" a bottom. Try to write the joint book in "co-authorship" with each other. Sing everything together something kind and write down. At last, go the amicable company to a backpacking: it is the best "a rope course" that it is thought up by mankind. Outdoors is not present "" and "others", is not present "" and "others", there is only a collective united by a joint travel, overcoming barriers, aspiration to a terminal point. Experience an elbow of the neighbor.
4. Softly and unostentatiously be interested in affairs of neighbors, their mood, progress. Be not closed by "Iron Curtain" from each other even if you are offended by something. Forming of walls does not resolve contradictions and does not help to understand better the opponent not a jot. Mutual rejection, a distance and alienation only delay "hour of court" when everything is chaotic and chorus will begin to sort out the relations, and do it inevitable.
5. It is considered that cats are the "antennas" connecting the terrestrial world with the beyond. These warm, mysterious and lovely beings can rally also your family. Unless it is possible to swear when on knees such charming creation lies? Bring to yourself the alumna and call her, for example, "World", and then there will be "a cat of the World" at your place. However, your fluffy girlfriend you can think up an original name on family council too if you manage to organize it, of course.