"Love cannot be ordered" is a bitter, but exact saying it is known since ancient times. Sometimes happens so: one person passionately, all heart, is in love, but does not meet reciprocity. For example, the guy loves the girl, looks after her, and it persistently concerns him or is indifferent, or just as to the friend, and at worst, with frank hostility. The reasons can be various, however meekly in love from it it is not easier. How to the guy to experience non-reciprocal love?
Instruction
1. "Not really there was also a wish!" Did not reciprocate to you? Instead of being tormented and exhaust itself, indulgently grin: "Would be because of what to worry. Did not estimate – it worse. Itself will regret then and late will be!" In a word, try to assimilate to that fox from the fable which, without having reached a grapes cluster, sniffed: "And it is still green!", was also removed with an indifferent look.
2. "Like cures like". You remember: the opposite sex is not limited to a subject of your meek passion. It is necessary to look narrowly only attentively, and you for certain will see that some girl shows to you apparent interest. Respond to this rush. Who knows, maybe, it is your destiny?
3. "What God does, all to the best!" Try to be consoled in a thought: still it is unknown, than our novel would end, reciprocate it to me. Strain memory. You for certain had to hear sad stories about how the girlfriend spoiled life to the young man the jealousy, hysteria. She literally to a step did not allow it to step, demanding the report: where was that did. Present yourself on the place of this poor creature, and you will want to exclaim: "Thank God that I kept freedom!"
4. "Down with pink glasses!" The girl seemed to you nearly an angel? Did you see in it advantages alone? So it because you were in love with it completely. Now put spurs imagination, having looked regarding the undivided passion more quietly and objectively. Try to see "a double bottom" in advantages. She studied well, was an honors pupil? It is clear – a potential "blue stocking". All extolled its culinary abilities? Well, so of anything another she is not capable, here and stuck out for hours at a plate. It has a faultless figure, the classical sizes: 90 - 60 - 90? It is possible to present what price it got it. For certain weighed each carrot, calculating calories, and you likewise would force to eat. Or, on the contrary, it is a little chubby? At-at-at, it is terrible to present how would carry it in several years or after the birth of the first child!