The fact that parents leave before children – quite naturally and passes through it at the time everyone. However, experiences at everyone different and a view of these things the. How to experience the death of the father, it will be told below.
How to experience the death of the father - councils of the psychologist
First of all not to hide emotion in itself at all. It is necessary to dare to cry, sob, possibly even to behave inadequately, but everything collected in itself has to find a way out, otherwise can "break through" at any time and not the fact that it will do good to mentality. It is necessary to be uttered to someone – to relatives, friends, the second parent if he is alive. The fact that the person at this moment is depressed – it is normal, but retiring into oneself more and more and the experiences need to be remembered that the father hardly wishes his death crippled life to the child.
No matter, from cancer there came the death of the father or not, asking how to endure it, it is necessary to occupy with something itself. If there is no opportunity to be constantly with people, you should not grieve alone. It is better to go on shops, it is possible to start repair or to find other work to liking. If there are children, it is worth spending more time with them, the meaning of life is put into them. Much are helped by communication with those who endured the same loss and could return to usual life. And it is still good to begin to help those who need support more you – to disabled people, orphans, etc.
If soul not on the place and distracts nothing from sad thoughts, it is possible to go to the temple. To talk to the priest and to get his advice concerning how to experience the death of the father. As a rule, priests say that despondency is a sin too and it is impossible to fall into it. It is worth forgiving, forgetting everything bad and to live further. Not to forget to remember the dead, to put candles, to order memorial services and to tell more often about what good person was a father to the children and that who did not know him.
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