In the heat of a quarrel it is possible to tell many unnecessary words and to offend the loved one. Both partners are guilty, but if you are sure that there is no your fault this time, try to inform the young man in what he was wrong.
Instruction
1. Do not take offense silently. Really, silence can sometimes tell about much, but if you see that it does not affect your guy in any way, are not silent long. Look for other ways to carry to it him to wine. Try to talk to it. You should not begin a new quarrel, try to inform of the thoughts softly and quietly. Explain to the partner in what he was wrong.
2. Analyze your quarrel. Remember each told word to each other. If you want to let know to the guy his fault, it is not rather simple to tell that he offended you by the own words or acts. In a quiet situation remind him of them and ask, kind of he treated such actions and words in the address. You do not pass to shout, do not read arguments on points, you not in court.
3. Wait some time after the quarrel. It is not necessary to begin to sort out the relations right after it, both of you need some time to cool down and calm down. You will be able to tell the most correct words only in a quiet state when the offense and rage cease.
4. That your young man understood you better, you should not place emphasis only on yourself. Tell it that you understand that too it is heavy and unpleasant to it. Remove pride and apologize for those offenses which were caused it earlier. So he will see that your feelings it is more important than pride for you, and too will meet halfway. Do not forget that the man is very proud on the nature and if he sincerely apologizes, so you to him are actually very not indifferent.
5. Learn to discuss quietly all problems in the relations. If you nearby, so you are not foreign people for each other, and common problems need to be solved together. To overcome difficulties together, it is necessary to look for their reasons and solutions together. You should not charge with this responsibility someone one. It is really necessary to work on the relations and if both of you have such desire, so at you everything will turn out.