The love is fine feeling which fills each section of our organism with happiness and a pacification. The love pushes people on different, sometimes, mad acts, it "inspires" and blood excites. If you never felt similar feelings, perhaps, time to really fall in love and find the soulmate who will fall in love also with you came right now.
Instruction
1. First of all really to fall in love, reach age when such love is possible. Certainly, all age are obedient to love, however the love is very different, and for really mature love nevertheless it is necessary to become the adult.
2. Create those conditions under which the love is possible. Often the love is impossible without a number of conditions, such as social (that is, Wednesday in which the person lives and is brought up), family, material, municipal and so on.
3. Understand that the Platonic love is very much and very rare species of love which is found generally only in books. The love is always connected with its some physiological manifestations, let you be not frightened by this thought.
4. Properly think and define what characteristics your object of love has to have. How many to it has to be years as it has to look what it has to have interests – think over everything to trifles.
5. Only do not idealize an image of future beloved in the head, do not place too great demands, otherwise you will look for the partner for the relations very much and very long. After you make an approximate portrait of future beloved, try to find the suitable candidacy in the circle of contacts.
6. Do not try to buy love. Even if at you there is a lot of, it is a lot of money. You can buy the person, but not his love – it never worked.
7. If you began the relations, then remember that in the relations both partners have to become better and happier. If you feel that one of you begins to pull another down, then hardly from such relations something good will turn out.
8. Do not try to change an object of the love in compliance with those ideas which at you are had of it. If the person does not meet your any requirements or if you do not accept any lines of his character, then learn to accept them better. It is quite possible, as something in you will not suit your darling. Present what to you will be if he wants to change you? You learn to accept each other such what you are.
9. Do not allow an object of the love badly with you to treat and humiliate you. If you allow it it even once, then then you will not be able just to convince it that this way it is impossible to act.
10. You do not become dependent on darling. Both of you have to depend from each other equally.
11. Reject jealousy. Attacks of jealousy of everyone, continuous shadowing, hysterics and pressure upon darling will not allow to construct the normal relations.