The harmony in family, is under construction on mutual understanding and respect. What needs to be undertaken if one of spouses falls before insults?
Instruction
1. The main thing, do not respond with insult to insult. Reciprocal aggression will only inflame scandal. Especially, in a rush of anger it is possible to tell superfluous what you will be sorry then about, and the second half, will long remember offense. You are not got, declare that a talk in such tone not for you and you will communicate only in the quiet atmosphere.
2. You should not be reconciled with it, such address quickly becomes a habit and becomes norm. Choose time when your spouse in good mood and try to talk. Find out the reason of such aggression. Demand to yourself respect and the corresponding address.
3. Try to take more care of attention and caress. The lack of heat of the relations can influence the person, having made him rude.
4. Pay attention when there are aggression flashes. If your second half begins to fly into a rage in the course of communication when you forbid something, or criticize, draw conclusions. Perhaps, it is a lack of free space, or touches personally your darling. The protest is so expressed. If fits of anger arise from nowhere, it speaks about deeper problems, moral fatigue a stress. Useful will be to address the expert.
5. If in the childhood your second half observed how parents offend each other, then so the absorbed negative is shown now. Talk to the spouse, for your family it cannot be norm, your general child should not see and feel similar.
6. It is impossible to allow manhandling, of you. Happens when you cannot make youself heard to the person, after ringing slap in the face, he recovers. Do not forget that in a rush of anger you can receive in reply, and scandal can develop into a fight.
7. Do not allow to discompose itself, answer all attacks quietly. It is possible joking to agree with insults and at the same time to show your good attitude to the spouse. It is possible just to leave the room, the apartment, having referred to some urgent urgent matters.
8. If the person does not want to make contact and does not see in it a problem, including similar communication by norm of life at all, well think whether you will be able to live with such person. The family consists of two people equal each other, the family relations are under construction on mutual care, love, respect.