Different generations are different views on life. The senior people always considered that they grown wise life that is it is smarter, can find a way out better. They know better how to solve problems, try to set constantly on the right path the child. The small child perceives it as due, and more adult - as pressure and infringement of private life.
Instruction
1. Maturing, any person expects support of parents in any undertakings. When it does not occur, surprise appears. The child ceases to share the problems and doubts, begins to hide and keep back, understanding that to parents something can it will not be pleasant, and they will insist on the point of view. In such cases the constant half-words lead to family quarrels, it is possible to avoid it by means of a serious conversation. It is time to explain to parents that their child already not so small what has the assumption. And it for future life needs independence. Parents to the pension of the child will not be able to decide that for it it is better and as it is necessary to arrive in a certain situation.
2. Sometimes the doubt whether it is worth looking for common language with parents if they do not take the first step on a meeting creeps in. They think that the child understands life a little. It is necessary to dissuade them from it. If there is desire that mother and the father became friends and in every possible way you were supported, it is necessary to seek for building relations. To take the first step independently, to go for reconciliation, to find more time of the help with the house, to ask supports from parents, to ask council and to discuss the point of view. You should not suit hysterics and to slam the door, the age or explosive character can write off it on transitional. Parents will not think as it is sick and unpleasant to the child because they do not perceive him as the personality.
3. Completely it is impossible to eradicate misunderstandings and the conflicts. Opinions of children and parents sometimes will disperse all the same, such is reality. And here to smooth things over usual dialogue quite perhaps. It is worth showing more interest in life of parents, to learn how are you at work that new at friends of the family. Why in the evening when parents come from work not to be interested at them how was your day? Genuine interest leads to mutual understanding of the parties. The conflicts can arise also against the background of friends. Perhaps parents do not like someone from an inner circle of the child. In such cases it is necessary to acquaint closer the friends with parents, then they will understand that actually friends have no untoward influence. Tell parents something good about family of the close friend, it always helps to change the attitude to the best.