Search of an ideal, the ideal partner, are peculiar to young people. But look around, look at married couples of advanced age. Of course, neither the husband, nor the wife in them are often ideal, but they together, and they are happy. Many of those who continue to look for the ideal remain all life lonely and embittered from such injustice.
Instruction
1. First of all, realize that ideal people are not, it is kind of banal sounded. If you look for an ideal, then probably consider also yourself the ideal person. But, in all honesty, unless you without shortcomings? And you know, as you have periods when you in bad mood, are ill or look not in the best way. Then allow the same problems at other people.
2. You do not make to yourself the detailed list of all qualities which your partner has to possess and furthermore, do not tie the search of an ideal only to one concrete type of people. Thereby you to yourself considerably limit the choice and automatically eliminate people who, for certain, possess many valued you advantages. Just you do not give the chance to people them to open for you.
3. External data, of course, mean at first sight much, but history knows many examples when people were called ideal only for their moral qualities and the principles. Think, perhaps, to cost a concept about the ideal partner to limit to several non-material criteria as honesty, kindness, decency, mind, ambition and sense of humour. This set is quite enough to develop all other qualities, for example, in the man.
4. Remember that you have to be ready to meet the ideal at any time. Therefore pay attention, maybe, it stands nearby when you row to the driver of the minibus or passes by when you in unpeeled boots drink beer on a bench. Always you keep in an order not only the body, but also thoughts. Than it is more you will correspond to the ideal chosen by you, those high probability that he will pay attention to you too.