How to find mother with the father

How to find mother with the father

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Not always the child is brought up by his biological parents. Many children grow up in foster homes. And often the matured adopted children have interest in persons of the biological father and mother. Such desire is unsurprising: nevertheless there is a wish to know who brought the person into world and why left? It is of great importance for further self-identification of the person, acceptance of the past and search of blood relatives.

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Instruction

1. To be engaged in the search of biological parents, it is necessary to have the written consent of adoptive parents as still nobody cancelled secrecy of adoption. If adoptive parents are dead, the court grants permission for disclosure of information.

2. Having got necessary permission, address to bodies of the civil registration (CR) where all information concerning the birth of the person and his biological parents is stored.

3. If it refuses to you issue of necessary information, referring to secrecy of adoption, appeal against its actions in court. For this purpose you need to have a written motivated explanation of the REGISTRY OFFICE which that is obliged to give by your inquiry for a month.

4. Besides, try to find the parents through the Wait for Me program, contact workers of the program and submit the announcement. It is desirable to find for this purpose as much as possible information on maternity hospital where gave birth to you, your biological parents, etc.

5. Except inquiry in the REGISTRY OFFICE, you have the right to address to maternity hospital where you were born, or archive of the court which granted permission for your adoption or adoption and also in tutorship and guardianship authority or in a regional databank of the children who were left without parental guardianship.

6. Keep in mind that the REGISTRY OFFICE and other government institutions are only obliged to tell you surnames and names of your parents, their present place you should look for accommodation most. It is possible to make it by means of the detective agencies though they undertake such affairs reluctantly: too strongly here it is necessary to interfere in private life of citizens that contradicts the legislation on private detective activity.

7. If you were lucky nevertheless to find the parents, do not say to them at once that you their son or the daughter. At first get acquainted with them as the stranger – the worker of social protection, etc. It is quite possible that your biological parents will not be pleased by a meeting with the child thrown once, and they will not go for contact, and it will cause you a big psychological trauma.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team

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