Probably, there is no such girl who since the childhood would not dream of mutual love. But how to meet that only with which you will be happy? Of course, everyone comes to the love differently. But there are some general rules which can reduce search of your half.
1. For a start look narrowly at yourself. The mutual love means that will be loved not only by you, but also you. And whether you are worthy love? Consider the qualities. If you know that you are capable to fly often into a rage, to be angry, irritable, then it is necessary to change urgently. The man looks for the girl who not only externally looks attractive, but also kind and sympathetic. He wants to get acquainted with that which will understand it, to promote its spiritual growth. And if you because of each trifle are capable to go into a hysterics, then your relations will not last long.
2. You do not stay at home alone. So you till the old age will not meet the love. Be in public more, visit the noisy companies, communicate with peers. You will get acquainted with young people, one of whom can become your half.
3. Develop. Try to learn more new, be interested in novelties not only fashion. In the world how much interesting. Try to be fond of something, maybe, of equestrian sport, mountain skiing, scuba diving or parachuting. Then chances to meet the worthy, courageous young man at you considerably will increase. Visiting trainings, communicating with adherents, you make out in each other high qualities more. And it is possible, your hobby will bring together you and will lead to mutual love.
4. Learn foreign languages. Communicate on the Internet with young people from other countries. It will broaden your horizons, and it is possible, and will give a chance to meet the only thing. Besides, virtual communication makes the person more liberated and more frank.
5. You learn to understand people. This very important quality, and it is useful to you throughout all life. Watch behavior of the man, his speech, movements. Be interested in its aspirations and plans for the future. The mutual love assumes some common interests, the solution of difficult questions and achievement of common goals. If your views of life cardinally differ from darling, then hardly you will be able to keep feelings.