Not always love of two people develops into the strong, long relations. It is good when feelings pass still before couple has children. But happens and so that pregnancy arises unplanned and accidentally. Some men, especially at young age, are frightened responsibility and throw the darling who has to solve for herself what to do next - to become single mother or to make abortion. Having made the decision to keep pregnancy, the girl soon turns out before a question - how to find the father to the child.
Instruction
1. Do not think that you will not attract men's interest with the small child on hands. This opinion is often wrong. There are many men raising other people's children on an equal basis with own. Therefore, striking up new acquaintances, do not hide that you already have a child. It is not necessary to be ashamed of it at all. Children are happiness, and the fact that you gave life to the little person - these can only be proud.
2. If you are seriously ready for finding to the child of the worthy father, do not fall into dependence on the feelings. Not all men paying attention to you are capable to become good fathers. You think sensibly, being guided not only by the sympathy, but also by presence at the man of such qualities as responsibility commitment, justice, kindness, care.
3. Observe how the man interesting you treats children in general. A way to heart of the woman with the childof lies through the benevolent and sincere attitude towards her child. Therefore the man who is sincerely interested in your kid is capable to subdue you quicker whereas the person indifferent to children pushes away you from himself.
4. Communicating with the man who counts on more close and serious relations with you, let it know that so far for you on the first place - happiness and wellbeing of yours of the baby. Only having accepted it as native, the man will be able to be near you.
5. If you with the elect decided to live together, watch his attitude towards the child. Do not allow injustice, but also do not reproach the man if he takes necessary educational measures in relation to the kid. The baby has to feel since small years not only fatherly love, but also male authority and control in family.
6. When family life is established, try not to focus attention of the man and child that they not the family on the relation to each other. For spiritual proximity the main thing is not kindred, but mutual understanding, love and tenderness to each other.