Sometimes, is more often with unfamiliar or unfamiliar people, it is difficult to find the general subject for a conversation. To solve, and it is the best of all to prevent this problem, it is necessary to know the basic rules. Following them, you without effort will find new subjects for a conversation and will interest the interlocutor.
Instruction
1. You watch that the conversation was kept up by all its participants. It is necessary to avoid monologues when only one person speaks, most likely, he will tire interlocutors.
2. Very interesting subject for a conversation - a travel. Share the experience and take an interest at others where they visited. It is also possible to ask about where the interlocutor plans or dreams to go.
3. Play a game. Ask in turn various questions. They have to be interesting and ridiculous. But be attentive and do not confuse the interlocutor with too frank questions, otherwise he can stop communication with you.
4. Avoid such banal subjects, how is the weather. It is interesting unless to meteorologists.
5. Do not begin to speak about yourself if did not ask about it. And if took an interest, do not tell too many names and surnames, it is excess information which does the story uninteresting. Also on a situation analyze what facts from the biography can be told any given person and what are not present.
6. Talk about a situation in which you are. For example, if you sit in cafe, then it is possible to discuss this institution, to bring up the subject of favourite dishes and drinks, to remember places in which you and your interlocutor like to be.
7. Do not fill up with questions. Otherwise your interlocutor will have an impression that he is on interrogation. Questions have to mean the developed answer. Better if before a question there is a narrative offer. For example: "I skated yesterday. And you are able?".
8. If you face a subject which badly you understand, and your interlocutor well, then ask it to tell about it a little. And you learn something new, and the story-teller will get positive emotions from the fact that something it is useful and it is attentive and with interest listen.
9. Subjects in the course of the conversation will arise by itself, the main thing that it was interesting to people with each other and was desire to continue communication.