Mother who is bringing up the child one, unfortunately, not rarity. Often not the woman's relations with future father of the kid which developed at once or parting of parents after the baby's birth become the reasons of such situation, there are also other reasons. There passes time and the woman has again a desire to arrange the personal happiness: to find the husband to itself and the father (let and nonnative, but loving) for the child.
Instruction
1. The most important condition to find to itself the worthy partner in life and to marry him while the woman already has a child – not to suppress the fact of existence of the kid at her. The deceived man will hardly understand such position or "will understand position" the played a cunning trick beloved.
2. To the woman having the kid to himself it is not necessary to refuse in pleasure to visit places of a congestion of people (including unmarried men) in which it is possible to spend time with pleasure at young mother now the person who will keep her the company – her child is always near. He with pleasure goes with it and in bowling (will even just draw, sitting at a table, or will eat cake), and to cafe. Therefore it is not necessary to despond after refusal of the married girlfriend in a request to it at all to keep the company for joint rest.
3. Walk with the child not only at the playground in the yard of the house more, but also in parks, squares, at city fountains that is where not only mothers with kids and carriages, but also young unmarried men walk.
4. At work in the opinion of colleagues and clients the woman acquires absolutely other status: now she is a mother, and it transfers it from category just of girls to category of girls responsible, education of the child and his material contents – things serious, demanding absolutely others (and, according to the majority, exclusively positive) qualities. Men begin to look at the lonely woman having the child in a different way: some - as on the readily available object wishing male attention, and others - as on the matured and grown wiser employee. But attention as some, and others the woman will not be deprived. And here the main thing is to choose that category which is closer to heart.
5. It is possible to try for acquaintance to the purpose of search of the husband both dating service, and a possibility of the special websites. Here it is only necessary to be at the same time more careful as acquaintances through similar resources – a favourite way of search of the victims by speculators.
6. You should not be in despondency and to tell all and everyone that one to be bad and difficult. The pity cannot attract interest in the woman, as to an object with which men connect the thoughts on the general future. Positive, good-natured, smiling young mother is much more attractive to men, than the bore complaining of life.
7. Well also to be engaged in what earlier in cares of the husband or the chest baby there was not enough time for: dances, rock-climbing, figure skating and so on. It adds to the woman of appeal, the person who is carried away by something is more interesting to people around: to him is what to tell, than to share and what to argue on. Such women of the man are noticed more often.
8. It is necessary to consider that an easy way for the man to get acquainted with the charming young mother who attracted to it – easy to get to talking with her kid, as well as with her on the subject concerning children. Therefore it is worth taking the child, apart from his hindrance for possible acquaintance to the man of the dream everywhere.