Sighing and sitting at a window, most of women are engaged in the fact that they draw IT in the imagination. That which will meet only to it and they will live "long and happily". But the fairy tale seldom becomes bylyyu. It is quite difficult for modern Cinderellas to find the princes in an everyday flow of the gray, eternally hurrying and dissatisfied persons. But somewhere waits for that lovely and only about which it is sung in the song. Or does not wait? And whether in general he has to wait? Let's try to understand where also the main thing how to meet the man of the dream.
The man of your dream – whether exists he?
Most often the problem in search of an ideal consists in a huge number of illusions and inquiries which, unfortunately are not always adequate. And before thinking how to meet the man of the dream, remember that each person has shortcomings. Exceptions do not happen here. Whether you are ready to be reconciled with them? And if is even more serious – whether you are ready to stand the man it what he is and not to change him under yourself? It is very important to solve this nuance in advance. All depend on it your further relations with it. Having sorted for itself those shortcomings with which you are ready to be reconciled, safely turn to work. In a question how to find the man of a dream and even to marry, councils of psychologists are almost identical: be morally ready that it really you will meet, stock up with patience, self-confidence and in own thoughts. Were adjusted? Then we start:
- Take the sheet of paper and write all qualities which, in your opinion, the man of your dream has to possess. Do not forget any detail. The example as describe the man of the dream can look so: "My ideal partner generous, kind, works in bank (at an oil derrick, etc.), balanced, romantic, sensitive, etc.
- The mental formulation of affirmation which you will daily have to repeat has to be the second step how to attract the man of the dream. And, above all – you have to trust in them. For example: "I know that my ideal is somewhere nearby, he aspires to me. He is kind, decent and loves children. He was tired of loneliness and is ready to a meeting with me". Secure with the rule to repeat similar words daily until they become a habit, and you finally will not believe in them. A secret is that the Law of an attraction forms our thoughts and does them material.
- The next stage – how to get acquainted with the man of the dream. You do not think that your promised will knock to you at a door with words: "Here I came, love me"? Flowers, as they say, are not necessary. To find the man, it is necessary to go outside and allow destiny to acquaint you. As practice shows, it can happen where and somehow. Mere chance – you dropped papers, and it helped to lift them, you voted on the road, and it stopped. Restaurants, shops and even the subway – all this potential places of your future meeting. The main thing that you have to make, it to be discharged of the thoughts to meet the promised. Yes, did not mishear. After several days of affirmation it is necessary to give to the Universe the chance to process information. And for this purpose it is necessary to distract from desire to meet the ideal and to go about the own business.
But there is more to come. There is a number of mistakes which are made by every second lady who does not know how to find the man of the dream. Advice of psychologists will help them not to make:
- Many face that the Law of an attraction does not work. And a problem here in that, the image of the man was how exactly formulated. Often ourselves do not know what we want also an image in our head too indistinct. For example, being in search of the wise and mature man of nearly 90% of ladies look at men of advanced age. Though at all not that how many years the person, and what experience at him behind shoulders lived is important. As a result actually the woman will be needs that who mature emotionally, and she by mistake chooses that who is more senior on age.
- One more mistake – misunderstanding of consequences of the choice. Let's say the woman wants to see near herself the cheerful and fervent person, the creative person with uncommon imagination. Also begins to describe the man who works as the writer, the musician or the actor. But very few people know how it is heavy to live with creative people. One can turn out so windy that will very quickly find the mistress. And another on the contrary will be fervent only at work, and at home will begin to torment itself and relatives with depressions and apathy. Therefore important accurately to imagine whom exactly you want to see near yourself. The Universe will take your inquiry literally.
Dreaming of the ideal partner in the life, always ask yourself a question: "What will be relationship with the man of my dream?" Remember that any fairy tale comes to an end sooner or later. Even if on happy combination of circumstances you receive the one who is necessary to you, through some time the romanticism will be changed by life. And even with the ideal man to you will be if be not a burden, then it is simply boring. Be attentive to the dreams, they have property to come true.
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