How to force itself not to be jealous the husband

How to force itself not to be jealous the husband

The jealousy is capable to destroy even the strongest and bright relations. It is possible to be jealous the husband of everything: to the past, to the child, to the ex-wife, to his mother. Especially painfully, if strong indications of that, incorrectness are not present, and it is impossible to get rid of jealousy. The jealousy reasons most often disappear in you, and there is it because of fears and complexes.

1. If fear is the reason of your jealousy to lose darling person whether it is time to cease to push away it the suspiciousness, reproaches? You want it to be with you why to remind him of what was once. Prove to him better that was not mistaken that chose in the wife you, you, surprisingly romantic and passionate. Do not remind of the past. Arrange it a dinner by candlelight, or any other pleasant surprise. Prepare for it with pleasure, putting all the love. If you have not enough of it, write on the sheet of paper that you are afraid to lose the husband, and burn a note. Every morning remind yourself that you the happiest woman on the earth.

2. If all of you time try to control the husband, then remember what he was when you fell in love with it. Free, independent, self-assured. Try time to arrange in a week "day without total control". You do not call him each 5 minutes to learn where it, and be engaged in more useful business – do some shopping, buy also to it a gift, think not only of the love for it, but also of the husband as the personality with the dreams and desires.

3. If you are not sure of yourself and therefore you are afraid that the husband can leave, it is necessary to increase self-assessment level. Perhaps, to you tiresomely slightly to lose weight, go to beauty shop, to begin to collect stamps, to get a dog or to find still some hobby. You love yourself, in you the husband will surely appreciate changes.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team