There passed already enough time since you left, but all of you still sob in a pillow at night, again and again torment yourself with questions and cannot forget it in any way. Enough! Time to return itself the life and to enjoy it to the full extent came!
It is required to you
- Paper and pencil
- Friends
- Self-respect
- Time
Instruction
1. It was ideal? Hardly. Just now, tormenting itself, you remember only good. Make the list of things which you in it is mute did not arrange, irritated and with which you had to be reconciled. Everything what you closed eyes to and tried not to notice. Remember and write down any trifles which once jarred on you. Add to this list of the quote of your friends and family members about its shortcomings. Now beautifully issue and you hold near at hand. Every time when you think of what beautiful man you lost, re-read.
2. Sit down and describe the man of your dream. Compare the description of your ideal to your former. Feel gratitude to destiny that you should not spend more time for it, and can direct on a meeting to the true love. For fixing of effect issue their main distinctions in not less beautiful list, than the list of its personal shortcomings. Do not remove far, get every time as you will begin to be sorry about the lost relations.
3. Make some mad act. Buy a punching bag and vent on it the rage. Burn its gifts and things left at you at night on the waste ground in the company of friends, organize about it a cheerful thematic party, for example, a sabbath vedmochek.
4. Make to what at its presence were too busy at you or what he forbade you. Make to yourself a dinner from those dishes which are pleasant to you, but not it. Get a cat or a dog. Have hair cut shortly or release hair. Arrange day of care of yourself, darling - take the weakening bath with aromatic salt, smear different masks on a face, a body and hair, include in the mode of non-feet favourite movies "for girls". Spend a lot of money for cosmetics and clothes for yourself. Think at the same time that nobody demands from you not to buy any nonsense, complains that he was tired of shopping and says that you need a new jig, and you here to yourself buy the fifth lipstick.
5. Do all of you still long for it? Too much free time means at you. Spend it with bigger advantage – register in fitness club, find to yourself a new hobby, get the second job, be engaged in volunteering. Instead of most to destroy the life, remind yourself who you are is – the clever, beautiful, compassionate woman. Isn't that so, he lost much?