Your elect can be clever, beautiful, courageous, taken place, honest and the best for you. However its former can sadden your happy joint life. Extent of its presence can be different – from the daily forced meetings before painful memoirs. Irrespective of it you can help the guy to forget this girl.
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Instruction
1. Remember all information which you obtain about his ex-girlfriend. If it still means to it much, you cannot but pay to it attention. Learn, than she lives that occurs in her private life how deep relations were between it and your guy. For this purpose at all you should not spy on the girl. There is enough page on social network, stories by acquaintances. But certainly, the most important information for you – that which the young man shares. Quite so you will be able to find out that he feels to being now. Information search has to be one-time. Take everything that was learned into consideration, draw conclusions and be not interested in her person any more.
2. If your guy with his ex-girlfriend had rough relations or a painful gap, you need to stock up with patience. If you really want to be with this person, you should not force events. What he still endures only demonstrates his sincerity. Gradually you will feel that the young man remembers the former passion less frequently. The alarm should be sounded only when his memoirs turn into obsession, and you serve only as a temporary consolation.
3. Exclude everything that would remind of the ex-girlfriend from your life. It can be a certain music, places where they were, the presented things. Delete associations gradually, but it is systematic.
4. Not strictly forbid any contacts with the ex-girlfriend, limiting to that freedom of the young man. Welcome if he admits that he saw it. However show that their meetings are a little unpleasant to you. If they have to be crossed on work or in a circle of mutual friends, it is much better if it occurs on your eyes, but not secretly.
5. Be oneself and never compare yourself to his ex-girlfriend. Show to the young man your self-sufficiency, fill your life with interesting events, you make new mutual friends. And memories of being will not cause any emotions in your guy soon.