Living long time together, over time the kid begins not to be enough for the woman. She feels that the relations already so strong and checked by time that it would be time to move to a new level and to give birth to the child. But not all men are ready to such serious step, saying that they are not ready yet and it is necessary to live for itself.
1. That darling wanted the child, do not arrange him hysterics at all, do not put ultimatums, give him time that the instinct opened in the natural way. If you constantly get the hysterics, then he easily can run away.
2. If the man is not ready, do not act with cunning, he will feel yours falseness, and justification of the fact that you forgot to take a medicine, will lead to unwanted pregnancy for the stronger sex. As a result you risk to remain one with the child on hands.
3. Do not sob on the street at the sight of the small child, do not leave the magazines "Ya I Moy Malysh" in the car. If to press on the spouse, he will be resists it even more.
4. Uncertainty in the partner – the main reason of unwillingness to have children. Turn your house into a cozy family nest that it wanted to go home, but did not force itself. It has to be sure of your fidelity.
5. If your man the careerist, it is worth leading with him a quiet discussion. Ask him what plans at it for the future and when he plans to bring children. You do not press on it, he can be, already planned everything and is ready to give you definite answer at once. Even not important, what will be the answer, the main thing that it had a purpose to get the child even if not at once.
6. Visit together friends who already became parents. If at your darling everything is good with mentality, then the lovely face of the kid and a contented face of the father will not be able to leave him indifferent. Leave it with the happy father together to sit with the child, let he will feel on himself what it. But if the child very whimsical, you do not do it, otherwise he will finally be frightened.