Sometimes, that the relations reach a deadlock. There is no former passion, the romanticism left, quarrels became more frequent. It would seem, the most right decision is to leave once and for all, having left all offenses in the past. But how to be if the husband does not wish to hear about parting and believes that all by itself is formed?
Instruction
1. Try to understand what holds the husband near you. Possibly, he does not want to leave the adjusted life or he is disturbed by the possible section of property. Similar questions can be settled in the course of negotiations, without putting forward sharp ultimatums. The main thing is to let the husband know that you are not going to rob him, and he will manage to make a lunch also.
2. If the man is attached to you, but not to your material values, hot beliefs that for you the relations became intolerable will not take effect. For you daily quarrels – a serious stress, and in family of his parents they were norm of life. And it sincerely does not understand why to get divorced. All so live – row and are reconciled.
3. Explain to the man problem scale. Refuse epithets "awfully", "badly", do not shift fault for dissonance only to it. Operate with the facts. Tell that at you because of experiences insomnia developed. That you cannot focus on work and not in forces make to the child a lunch. He has to understand that the difficult relations really exhausted you that you do not exaggerate.
4. How it was difficult, try to keep calm. Let the man know that you are not going to be at war with him, but it is better to leave now, for the present there are chances to remain friends. You give examples of your acquaintances which after the divorce kept the fine relations and found new families.
5. A talk did not work? In that case there was the last and strongest argument – pack things and leave. It is possible to get over to the girlfriend or to live at mother. But you remember that back the road will not be. The leaving you put a resolute end in the relations, ignoring opinion of the husband. He just should reconcile with your decision.
6. Whatever desired the divorce was, to endure it not easy - and to you, and the husband. Do not give up reproaches into a back of the person who once was dear to you. Wish him success in hard business of search of family happiness.