You were tired of the fact that your husband lies on a sofa and constantly watches TV or he works, but for kopeks and how to force the husband to work do not know, nothing we will understand now. Of course, there is very known expression – With darling love in a cottage, but it absolutely not so. You look at the girlfriends who go to have a rest the abroad and every week go to shopping, and frankly envy, nothing, now you learn how to force the man to work and will correct everything.
What is done by women?
Most of women begin to shout at the soulmates, say that they are losers who of anything are capable, but this wrong decision as aggression causes only aggression. In such a way you only worsen a situation and your relations. Other women do not pay attention and begin to lead separate life, but such option, has unpleasant consequences too.
How it is correct to force the idler to work?
You have to understand that the psychology of the man considerably differs from women's. To resolve this issue it is necessary to understand this question and to learn to think how the man. It will be more difficult for women for whom the man does not work for a long time as the person quickly gets used to such way of life. Is, of course, exceptions to the rules – men who become housewives and comfortably feel in such situation. They raise children, I remove and I erase, and the woman earns money. Here the main thing that you suited it as the man turns out in your family you.
How to force lazy to work - useful tips
- In a quiet situation try to explain to the husband why he should go for work, listen to his opinion. At you dialogue in which everyone has the right to express the opinion and arguments has to turn out.
- If your husband has problems with a self-assessment, then you need to lift it. You praise him, especially in the company, you tell him pleasant words, and write better on sheets of paper what husband at you talented, responsible and so forth. To part them on the house and it precisely will help it to believe in itself.
- Look at the newspaper with announcements or vacancies on the Internet, show it what salary he can receive if he works. And on this money you will be able to smoke many things among which by all means there will be something for it. Believe, you by all means will interest him in it.
Be near it, help it with everything, be its support and a support and then at it by all means all it to turn out.