To force the man to go to the doctor extremely not easy. But there are some cunnings which will help his soulmate to make it without nerves and scandals.
Fact of common knowledge – that men hate hospitals, doctors and all with them connected. To persuade the elect to visit the doctor at own will – all the same what to try to stop the throwing-up volcano. It is almost impossible, especially – directly. Therefore it is necessary to work only with cunning and with couple of successful councils from psychologists in a stock.
"Blow" by the facts
Men are beings a little emotional therefore usual lamentations on dreadful diseases and possible consequences here not to manage. It is necessary to arm with the bright convincing facts. For example, to provide statistics as many guys at early age lost life just because ignored regular surveys of the doctor, to tell that the heart attack and a stroke every decade looks younger, and diabetes often cannot be distinguished independently at an early stage without the corresponding analyses, etc. The facts have to be such which will force the specific man to listen and think.
It is possible to use cunning and tell a little a story as the doctor told the husband of the neighbor with the same symptoms or an indisposition just yesterday that the appeal to hospital was too late. If the patient made it earlier, would manage much less dangerous consequences and losses. The main thing is to speak very seriously, complementing the story with truthful details. Otherwise the man will quickly disclose cunning and in the future it will be even more difficult to influence him.
Carrot and stick
Psychologists unanimously assure: men are big children. Therefore and it is possible to influence that and others by identical methods. For example, to promise some "delicacy" for a fast visit to the necessary doctor. And the speech goes not only about food here. Country fishing with friends on all days off, several hours of a free game in favourite computer strategy / shooter game without criticism from the spouse for for nothing the spent time, a night sit-round gathering in bar with colleagues and friends till the morning can become desirable "dessert" for the man. Options of "gingerbread" it will be possible to think up much. For each man it is the.
Descended to the doctor? Receive a desired award! In this case the man cannot remember further that he agreed to go to the doctor only for something and to otherwise reproach him.
If the partner refuses flatly to visit the expert it is possible "to intimidate" his, for example, long absence at dinner of favourite dishes, need from now on independently to iron shirts in the mornings and other similar options of "whip". Very important at announcement of such condition not to quarrel with darling.
"Switching"
Men often are not concerned about the health as do not consider it special value and something important. Ladies-continuers of a sort behave absolutely differently – they try in any possible ways most long to keep high performance of the organism. At least for the sake of the planned or already growing up children.
If the man appreciates, loves and respects the darling, then on him stories about her state can work. The girl needs to tell that she very strongly worries for the state of health of the beloved, and every time goes crazy with experiences when the partner ignores a visit to the doctor. In many cases it affects the man, and he goes to the expert just not to upset the soulmate.
Appearance assessment
Kind of men did not try to convince people around that own attractiveness is indifferent for them, actually it is a lie. Each man wants to look handsome, healthy, strong.
Therefore phrases it seems can appear very effective: "What look, painful and weak at you, …", "Recently you any more not such strong and hardy as was … earlier", "Because of this indisposition you became much worse to look". Of course, it is necessary not only to tell the elect an unpleasant phrase, but also to note that the doctor will help to establish the reason of such changes to him.
There are no universal ways which will allow at once to persuade to go to the medical center any man. But by experiments it is possible to pick up the most suitable for the specific man.