Girls very often in the course of the relations with the man have a question: "Why darling does not give gifts?" He can does not appreciate your attitude towards him, or you somehow not so behave? Or the man considers that he already achieved you, the buketno-candy period is finished? And it can just the greedy person? What it is necessary to make to force the man to make gifts?
It is required to you
- — Wishlist (list of desirable gifts);
- — gift for the man.
Instruction
1. Think why men give to the darlings gifts. Possibly, they want to please them, it is pleasant to make it. Do not perceive a gift as the highest manifestation of love from the man.
2. When the man asks what to present to you, avoid ambiguous, long answers. Express the thoughts precisely and briefly, otherwise to you not to avoid disappointments.
3. You do not tell a phrase "you have to". The commander tone will not be appropriate here, men are negative to it. In this case you can be left in general without gift. Be cleverer, approach has to be softer.
4. Set an example: dream up and choose a gift which will be to the taste to your darling that he could estimate your care. You do not seek to surprise the man if he is provided, with expensive gift. Present it a knickknack which will be able to cause pleasant emotions.
5. Hint. Constantly improve this art. Tell the man from time to time about those nice bagatelles which you met in shop. Describe their advantages, at the same time do not forget to tell that sometime you will surely get any pleasant thing.
6. You say more specifically, the man can not remember as any given shop is called. But nevertheless try softly to inform of it it.
7. Be straightforward if all above ways have no effect. The man can apprehend it as the sign of trust or care, quite perhaps, he just does not know what to present, and puzzles over it before every holiday or a significant event.
8. In case the man against such unambiguity, also wishes to possess free the choice, make so-called "wishlist". Specify in it those not several things which you would like to possess.
9. If your man cannot spend big money for a gift, have a talk with it about modest gifts – a soft toy, the book or a vase. Darling disappeared seriously and for a long time? Then most likely he is not poor, and is simply avaricious.
10. Rejoice even to the simplest gifts. The love is an ability to share a part of the world with other person.